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Reality check on one sided love

One sided love, something everyone of us might've experienced at some point in our lives. I am very well aware of the pain and self doubt the one sided love bring in a package.  We've all gazed at our reflections and thought it through, why?..why not me?, what do I lack for them to not like me just as I do, well to be honest I'll tell the problem isn't just superficial but more deeper, more psychological. The problem is human nature, I think we humans have an inbuilt sadistic side, we look for vulnerability in a person to use it later to have power Over them. Here is the catch, love is another name of being vulnerable. You open yourself to pain when you fall In love. The person you love one sidedly is well aware of it, the truth is they just don't Want to acknowledge you're love. Initially they resist and gradually they get a mighty sense of themselves, you're attention makes them feel important, they enjoy the importance more than love, since it comes witho...