Reality check on one sided love

One sided love, something everyone of us might've experienced at some point in our lives. I am very well aware of the pain and self doubt the one sided love bring in a package. 

We've all gazed at our reflections and thought it through, why?..why not me?, what do I lack for them to not like me just as I do, well to be honest I'll tell the problem isn't just superficial but more deeper, more psychological.

The problem is human nature, I think we humans have an inbuilt sadistic side, we look for vulnerability in a person to use it later to have power Over them. Here is the catch, love is another name of being vulnerable. You open yourself to pain when you fall In love. The person you love one sidedly is well aware of it, the truth is they just don't Want to acknowledge you're love. Initially they resist and gradually they get a mighty sense of themselves, you're attention makes them feel important, they enjoy the importance more than love, since it comes without responsibility.

They always had you on their back, so you're taken for granted, they know you would do anything for them, which you would. You'll have to be unpredictable, you should know if someone wants you they will cross all boundaries to have you, other wise it's clear you're just a standby, a sense of safety net for them. 

This is harsh but the truth is something that should be acknowledged, processed and then acted upon. Don't give anyone power to control you to improve their own sense of importance. You're as important as them, you are as human as them, you deserve the love you wish to give as well.